Title: I'm asked often if I want to go out for a casual drink, phot..

Message: I'm asked often if I want to go out for a casual drink, photoshoot or fly to another country to a fan. I just wanted to collect my thoughts on this in one post to explain why I am not interested. I just want to say I am flattered but I must politely decline! - It is again TOS here so please don't get me banned for talking about it - I have a software job which allows me ~20 days paid days off work. These are very valuable to me and as an introvert I much prefer to spend my days off at home playing games or organising travel to see my family. - I much prefer convenient hook-ups, I don't want to be travelling halfway across the world - I feel like I've already ticked a lot off my bucket list sexually - It is unsafe, I've had bad experiences in the past where I've been taken advantage of and done things I would not have done retrospectively - I've done photoshoots before with the odd photographer and although I enjoyed them it is actually far too much effort to organise as I'd prefer to do it with multiple creators. p.s. the photo attached was taken at one of my photoshoots :) and although I like the photos, I haven't used many of them because it doesn't fit my style. I have a lot of amateur content and I prefer to keep it that way because I feel strongly about giving people the wrong impression about women and their sexuality.